tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-58091857103271134342024-03-19T00:42:11.885-04:00goddessoftheconfluenceTears of Shiva shed into rivers. Cherry blossoms fell. The goddess of the confluence admired them for a time
before she released them. The tears scoured suffering. The petals added beauty. The river flows on.
I watch where streams of consciousness flow into one another and write what I see.Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.comBlogger176125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-46179820324939527002013-06-19T15:26:00.002-04:002013-06-19T15:26:57.994-04:00How We Represent Ourselves to Others<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="fbPhotosPhotoCaption" data-ft="{"type":45}" id="fbPhotoSnowliftCaption" tabindex="0"><span class="hasCaption">These beautiful necklaces were made from prayer beads. The focal point
on one, the endless knot, represents the endless cycle of life while the
lotus, on the other, represents the <span class="text_exposed_show">flowering
of enlightenment. Tassels found on most Buddhist prayer beads are
reminders of constant change within what appears to be changeless, the
illusion of separateness, and the undivided unity of the eternal or
divine.</span></span></span></td></tr>
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<span class="fbPhotosPhotoCaption" data-ft="{"type":45}" id="fbPhotoSnowliftCaption" tabindex="0"><span class="hasCaption">What
we choose to wear is an expression of our beliefs about who we are. It
conveys a message to people around us. Sometimes it is very straight
forward for example a T-Shirt slogan. I saw a T-shirt the other day on a woman that read, "I'm a Bitch!" Wow! That was some message. Something I see often in my neighborhood are the pants below the underwear. I keep thinking that it is a fad that will pass away but the fad has lasted for at least a decade now. The message... available for sex?</span></span><br />
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<span class="fbPhotosPhotoCaption" data-ft="{"type":45}" id="fbPhotoSnowliftCaption" tabindex="0"><span class="hasCaption">Our daily practice should not harm</span></span><span class="st"> others and cultivate wholesomeness in ourselves. In Buddhism, this practice extends to the most mundane exercises in our lives including how we dress and how we represent ourselves to others. These ideas should motivate every thought and every action.</span><br />
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<span class="st">Peace!</span><br />
Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-54433198520881820602013-05-24T16:54:00.000-04:002013-05-25T17:21:57.839-04:00Jogini a Symbol of Feminine Power<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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In Hindu and Tibetan Tantric mythology Jogini represent the triumph of the feminine over demons or over the heart and the mind. Part of this concept is to have mastery over ones sexual desires and not to be an undisciplined emotional and hedonistic disaster. Respect for the feminine spiritual teacher is a necessary part of every beings path to spiritual enlightenment. Sadly, in modern times the term 'Jogini,' has become synonymous with young girls being forced into prostitution in India. Sexual slavery is the antithesis of feminine power and of the enlightened mind. I believe that as women become more respected and empowered, our global community will begin to heal and become more balanced. When Buddhists pray for the enlightenment of all sentient beings, this development of moral reasoning is really what they are praying about. As we become more aware, we naturally act on that awareness and create a better world for all of us to live in.</div>
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Long may the Jogini dance on the head of her demon foe!</div>
Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-63199605947216088222013-01-11T12:52:00.000-05:002013-01-23T10:36:06.310-05:00Have we ruined our world?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This morning my 10 year old accused me and the last few generations before me of ruining our world.<br />
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"Have we?" I asked.<br />
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"Mom, you and your generation and the generations before you are responsible for all of the garbage and global warming... " He had more to say, but this was the essence.<br />
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What have we done?<br />
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I asked him to look around him and said, "If I have contributed to the decay of the world then so have you. Look around you. Everything that you have is made by machines with plastic parts and consumes fossil fuels." We went hunting around our home for an object completely untouched by modern technology. I found pottery made by my friend, but the wheel it was turned on was electric and the clay arrived boxed in plastic. There are few places in the world where everything is entirely industry free. Perhaps somewhere in the Amazon or high in the mountains of Nepal. Even though the <a href="http://aworldofgood.com/">jewelry we buy</a> is entirely hand built, torches are used to solder the pieces together.<br />
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He is right, we are no longer able to live in this modern world without touching objects made by machines and it is ruining the air we breath and the environment that we live in.<br />
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Please rent <a href="http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/Manufactured_Landscapes/70059641?locale=en-US">Manufactured Landscapes on Netflix</a>, photo above, It is an astounding film! It shows the monumental physical damage we have done to our landscape.<br />
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Right now in Nepal, Global Warming is causing the glaciers to recede leaving longer dry seasons. A friend in Nepal just wrote me that they have had no rain for 3 months. People will die of starvation this year because their crops will not have enough water. How unfair that people who have barely had access to modern technology will suffer so much for the excesses of the rest of us.<br />
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We can not turn back the clock but we can make an effort to change our future. Technology may have gotten us into this mess, but I think that responsible technology is also our only way out. Reduce, reuse, recycle, buy natural handmade products, and advocate for the development of clean energy alternatives. It's not easy in our modern society and it will take a daily commitment make a change.<br />
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<span id="goog_1734519445"></span><span id="goog_1734519446"></span>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-34771002853555306372012-12-23T13:19:00.001-05:002012-12-23T13:19:27.904-05:00Buddha in front of the Christmas Tree<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Buddha in Meditation in front of the Christmas Tree</div>
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So many of my good friends from around the world have sent me Christmas Greetings. I am grateful to be remembered at this time of year by people who do not share my ethnic heritage and am deeply impressed by their thoughtfulness. </div>
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Our global greetings, blessings, prayers and well wishes are the same no matter where we are from.</div>
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Peace, Health and Prosperity!</div>
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May we be the conduit by which these prayers are made manifest throughout our world for the benefit and well being of us all!</div>
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Wishing you all a happy Christmas, Losar, Lunar New Year, Eid-al-Adha and Kwanzaa! (I'm a little late for Chanuka and Diwali but I hope that it was spectacular!)</div>
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And Happy Holidays to all of you who's traditions I have yet to discover!</div>
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Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-26836210365608296102012-12-15T13:14:00.001-05:002012-12-15T13:14:11.548-05:00Gun Control and Mental Health Care<br />
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<i>When I am at home in the US people always ask me if I am afraid to travel by myself in Nepal. When I am abroad</i><i> foreign friends say to me, Aren't you afraid to live in the US.</i><br />
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On December 14, 2012 two schools that were attacked by insane people. One was in Sandy Brook Connecticut and the other in Chengpin Henan, China. In the US the man carried a gun. In China the man wielded a knife. The 22 children in China survived but 20 children in the US did not!<br />
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This<i> </i><span style="font-size: small;">following </span>statistic is<i> </i>from the <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/injury.htm">CDC</a> and includes the number of all deaths in the US attributable to firearms whether accidental suicide or gun violence in 2011: <span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>31,347 people</b></span>.<br />
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"The reported number of people treated for gunshot
attacks from 2001 to 2011 has grown by nearly half."<br />
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We need access to <span style="font-size: small;">affordable </span>mental health care for the health and well being of
our entire community, and we need effective gun control in the US now! <br />
<br />Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-86232954781970777232012-11-22T11:37:00.000-05:002012-11-22T11:37:16.080-05:00Turkey Disasters<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Every year Thanksgiving is a bit of a nail biter. It is not the emotional dramas that play out between family members and guests, but more a question of<span id="goog_1611199597"></span><span id="goog_1611199598"></span> the special dietary concerns of each person plus the timing! It is not that I try to please everyone at once, but I do like to have at least something on the table that each person can eat so sometimes I have to be able to put a last minute item on the menu. Some years the problem has been teenagers who are vegetarian but don't really like vegetables and some years it is allergies and gluten free diets or people who can't chew or digest seeds or just need everything pureed. But usually, the culprit is the turkey. MSG, salt or other solutions, hormones, antibiotics, inappropriate feed mixtures or just the simple cruelty of how the turkeys are raised creates a toxic disaster that some of my friends and family will not tolerate.<br />
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For the cook however, organic free range turkeys have a few issues beyond how dry they are. First of all the price! I could get an average 13 pound grocery store turkey for $13 or I can get someone's free range pet for $70. One year we bought an organic turkey that seemed reasonably priced but when we got it home we found that had no legs. ??? Another year I received and organic turkey frozen solid the evening before Thanksgiving. A very nice and expensive gift, however, if you are gifting a frozen turkey, think 3 days in advance at least. My hands got freezer burn trying to get the giblets out of the neck. Lots of running water was involved. Two years ago I got a fresh free range turkey from a local farm. It was not just covered with pin feathers! It had full feathers good enough for a quill pen protruding from the wing tips. I worked on the turkey for two hours with a pair of pliers before I could cook it.<br />
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This year I have solved the problem. Only omnivores are coming for dinner. I don't even have to buy Himalayan sea salt to brine the turkey.<br />
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Happy Thanksgiving everyone! <br />
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I have sold singing bowls for years. I encountered them on my first trip to Nepal in Patan
Durbar Square. Pradeep, the singing bowl man, sat in front of a thousand bowls where the <a href="http://www.patanmuseum.gov.np/">Patan Museum</a> is now. Usually, we would not negotiate in public. Instead he would take me to his warehouse and I would sit
on the floor with a cup of tea and play every bowl one at a time and
choose the most harmonious bowls. It took hours. Most of the bowls
that I found were Nepalese singing bowls. They were large and dark, the
color of tarnished brass. Some of them were even painted dark around
the bottom with a kind of tar like substance. I have also seen the same
substance on metal water vases when they have cracks in them. Another
style that I often saw were the thin golden colored bowls from Bhutan.
They had a lighter vibration, a thin but soothing sound. Then I discovered the Manipur singing bowl and fell in love. These were usually short golden bowls with multiple harmonies. They were clearly well used bowls!<br />
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Over time one supply after the other of these old bowls has dried up. Now it is extremely expensive for me to get the older bowls. I do find some really fantastic bowls that have been formed in the original way out of the old broken bowls. Don't worry, I have saved one special old bowl for myself, the rest have gone to people who will cherish them.<br />
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Recently in the US bowls have been used for healing. It has been interesting to watch the mythology of these bowls explode in the last 20 years. I can't tell you about all of the present uses of the bowls because the stories vary from person to person. What I find very interesting is that in the last month I have had more demand for these bowls than at any other time during my past 20 years of doing business. What's going on?<br />
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Below is an explanation of singing bowls for those who are not familiar: <br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">At the forefront of this picture is an old Tibetan singing bowl with two reconstitu<span style="font-size: large;">ted bowls behind it</span>. Old bowls
like this one are not being produced anymore.
There are new shinny bowls with interesting decorations<span style="font-size: large;"> </span>but the metal composition is different, so is the
tone.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">‘Old’
means that no one really knows when it was made but perhaps between 1800 and
1950. When you find old bowls the edges are smooth from use. There are usually identifying
marks on the bowl. These ,marks are like
putting your name on your lunch box. Usually it is a couple of has<span style="font-size: large;">h mark<span style="font-size: large;">s or a simple design. </span></span>I
sometimes see names carved on the outside of a bowl instead of patterns. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Other
than clothing, a prayer wheel, and a prayer <span style="font-size: large;">mala</span>, the singing bowl might have been a monk’s
only possession. Everything that the
monk needed he could obtain with his bowl because it was his begging bowl and
the bowl out of which every meal was consumed. It very vividly represents both the physical life of the owner in
providing for his physical requirements as well as the spiritual life of the
owner as a meditation tool. Bowls were also used to present offerings and anything that is given as an offering should be given in a harmonious vessel.</span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">When a high
ranking teacher passed away, his bowl may have been used to help find his
reincarnation. They might take a few bowls
to a potential candidate and ask which of the bowls belonged to him.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">This antique bowl and sim<span style="font-size: large;">ilar bowls were created in the <span style="font-size: large;">monasteries of Tibe<span style="font-size: large;">t, Nepal, <span style="font-size: large;">Bhutan a<span style="font-size: large;">nd northern India.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">Each bowl was individually sp<span style="font-size: large;">u</span>n and hammered from a combination of<span style="font-size: large;"> 7 metals called "<span style="font-size: large;">bell metal." These metals are gold, silver, mercury, copper, i<span style="font-size: large;">r</span>on, tin, and lead.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
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play rotate the stick faster and more firmly, if it rattles, slow down. You may strike your bowl gently to fix a focal point in meditation or to end a meditation<span style="font-size: large;"> but you should not h<span style="font-size: large;">it your bowl every time you play it. </span></span>Larger bowls are often played by simply stri<span style="font-size: large;">king the bowl with the heel of on<span style="font-size: large;">e's hand<span style="font-size: large;"> or using a<span style="font-size: large;"> felted <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">dowel</span>.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span> It is believed that the many harmonic sounds from the bowl are the <span style="font-size: large;">vibrations</span> of the prayers which are chanted a<span style="font-size: large;">s the bowls are created<span style="font-size: large;"> and that it<span style="font-size: large;">'s resonance should magni<span style="font-size: large;">fy and carry <span style="font-size: large;">your prayers and in<span style="font-size: large;">tentions while you are meditating with the bowl.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span> <br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This has been a fast paced summer of great changes. My apologies for abandoning my blog for several months. </span></div>
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July 13,14,15 - Virginia Beach, VA<br />
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<span style="font-family: arial;"><i>(My car has achieved 200,000 miles in 7 years and I am travel weary.)</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;">Change is the very nature of existence. Fear of change is our obstacle rather than the change itself. We can be slow to accept changes but they will come even to the unwilling and <b>we will learn</b> to walk a new path. I am currently making transitions from the stone age to the information age and I am finding the transition more painful than I would like to admit. It is true that I need to let technology do my driving for me, but I will miss the long visits to artsy gift stores around the country. Many of the places that I used to visit have not weathered the economic storm. What remains are shops with a strong presence online who access customers around the globe. The transition to globalization is very old news but for those of us who relish trips to places where there is rarely electricity and entertainment is a front porch chat, there has been a very deliberate foot dragging.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;">Here's what is happening. My postcard show announcements will completely disappear by the end of this year. They will be replaced by an email list serve. If you want to know when I am coming to a show near you you will have to subscribe.</span> I will still be traveling for the near future.<br />Sign up here, <a class="moz-txt-link-freetext" href="http://eepurl.com/oWRpL">http://eepurl.com/oWRpL</a>.</div>
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<b><i>Learning can only happen in concert with change. May you experience peaceful transitions as you encounter the flowering of enlightenment! </i></b></div>
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Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-36678924355187732202012-04-22T22:43:00.000-04:002012-04-22T22:43:42.807-04:00Up a Creek without a ...I have just finished cleaning myself up after our Earth Day contribution. Our family participated in a local creek clean-up. After a few years and several volunteer groups, I am happy to report that our section of Doan Brook was looking pretty good. I did run into a small problem however when my 9 year old son urgently needed a toilet. We popped up out of the creek gorge in our bright yellow worker's vests carrying bags of filthy garbage on a major road in Cleveland with not a clue where we should look for a public facility. Luckily, I saw two men leaving their house and so we ran across the boulevard and asked to use their toilet. They looked more than a little surprised but did not hesitate to let us in. It made me wonder: if two strangers showed up at our door and asked to use the bathroom under what conditions would I be willing to return the favor?<br />
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On the way back I started thinking about public toilets in urban areas. They used to be more common but now they are very rare. I know that I always see signs in the city saying "You can't use our toilet unless you are a paying customer." It makes me wonder where are homeless people supposed to use the bathroom. People always complain about the smell in parking garages and so forth, but really, what are the options?<br />
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My son and I hurried back down into the ravine to catch up with our group. Unfortunately, I missed a step while crossing the stream and got a full bath. It was at that moment it occurred to me where the homeless might be going to relieve themselves.<br />
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I found this lovely synchronicity in my inbox when we got home. It is from someone who knows that I have written about the lack of sanitation in third world countries before. They asked if I would post it.<br />
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Aunt Edith opened her door to a linen and lace covered table set with elaborate displays of freshly baked cookies and perfect little sandwiches, crusts removed. As always, the house was in immaculate condition. Truly a feat for a woman nearly eighty years of age. For our part, we used our best manners and sat quietly while tea and glasses of juice were poured.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto">Aunt Edith was easy to love. She was beautiful; her hair was always coiffed to perfection in soft silver swirls. Around her brilliant blue eyes were lines that expressed a life of love and laughter. Even without prior notice, she seemed always prepared to entertain with delicate treats. She, herself, would never arrive at anyone's house either unannounced or empty handed. Where there were children, her bags always contained an exotic treasure, stacking dolls from Russia or rice paper candy from Japan, perhaps just a few foreign coins, but always something.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto">It was not just her sweet demeanor and generosity that kept us all in line, it was more her dignified presence. She was an accomplished woman, and she knew it. She was the quintessential modern woman of the 20th century. Born in 1897, she was 23 when women in the US got the right to vote. Raised on an Ohio farm by a single mother of 5 children she learned hard work and discipline at a very young age. Instead of marrying she got her PhD in Home Economics from Ohio State University and spent her life teaching women on farms and in Universities how to save money, clean more efficiently, and prepare the healthiest possible meals for families with limited resources. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto">Women of her generation generally either had careers or families but not both. Although she was very beautiful, and my mother told me that she had many gentlemen callers, she valued her independence. Perhaps she learned from her mother and from caring for her 4 brothers that a man to look after is not always a blessing. So at the end of her life, her house and property were her own, and she was very proud of this. She had enough money during her final 20 years to travel anywhere that she wished.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto">Her memories of these trips danced around her in the jewelry that adorned her body. On her right wrist she wore charms from Europe. In her ears were articulated fish earrings from Thailand. Around her neck were mummy beads and a gold scarab from Egypt. But by far, my favorite piece of jewelry was her golden coin bracelet from South Africa worn on her left wrist. It was simply beautiful and it brought to her mind adventurous tales of wild animals and stunning landscapes. There is no doubt that her stories influenced my passion for both jewelry and travel. Without the strong and adventurous woman of our past, we simply could not be the women that we are today.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="">Thank you Aunt Edith!</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="">*Inspired by the <a href="http://oneminutewriter.blogspot.com/">One Minute Writer</a>.<br /></p>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-22055969393445451482012-03-02T12:27:00.007-05:002012-04-12T19:05:22.693-04:00I'm not OK!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjr8wCnaMcBUhzPyKbFnlEyRbqQwIvc1MivXqRdlSqGHd1LxILKAYj-agr5rRoowbyqOAcYCB9q9aRGA71DU15S8EASOrd6rbkyUVg52_TManoLkdHHJkbdWn3GuiktL13i-oyjg-zhhRU/s1600/no-guns-729109.gif"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 287px; height: 289px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjr8wCnaMcBUhzPyKbFnlEyRbqQwIvc1MivXqRdlSqGHd1LxILKAYj-agr5rRoowbyqOAcYCB9q9aRGA71DU15S8EASOrd6rbkyUVg52_TManoLkdHHJkbdWn3GuiktL13i-oyjg-zhhRU/s400/no-guns-729109.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5715355741047415762" border="0" /></a><br /><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif][if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif][if !mso]><object classid="clsid:38481807-CA0E-42D2-BF39-B33AF135CC4D" id="ieooui"></object> <style> st1\:*{behavior:url(#ieooui) } </style> <![endif][if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">“What would you do if a gun man came to your school and started shooting kids?”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I asked my children.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“I’d hide behind the door,” my older son said.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Do you think that all of your classmates could get behind the door with you?”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I wondered aloud.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“I know, I’d jump out the window.” my younger son said.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“I hope you wouldn’t jump from the second floor,” I told him.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“I think that I would tell everyone to push all of the desks and chairs in front of the door. And, I would tell someone to call the police on their cell phone.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Do you think you would ever go back to your school if something like Chardon happened at your school?”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I asked </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Nope, no way!”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>They agreed.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><i style="">Dear God!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Do I really have to have this discussion with my 9 year old and my 14 year old?</i></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Back in 2010 I wrote about living in the center of the <a style="color: rgb(255, 255, 0);" href="http://goddessoftheconfluence.blogspot.com/2010/02/under-siege-in-strange-land.html">DC sniper attacks</a>. At that time I had one preschool child.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Parents drove to the door of the preschool and the teachers would send one child out at a time at pick-up in the hope that only one parent and child would be vulnerable to attack.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The school was completely locked down and there was no way to enter without the proper password.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">When we moved to rural PA in 2007 it was less than a year after a gun man had killed Amish children at school only 38 miles from where we moved.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>To enter our little country elementary school, parents had to be buzzed in one at a time.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Parents were not allowed to hold the door open for the parent behind them.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Inside, they would have to present their license in the office. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The license was scanned and checked by a security database before they could enter.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">My children were too young then and oblivious to the reasons for these procedures.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>At that time, I kept the dark details to myself, but this time my children are completely aware. The news is all around them.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal">My eldest son was date/‘texting’ a girl with whom he had been in theatrical productions. She attends Chardon schools only 25 miles from where we live now. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>One of her friends was Daniel Parmertor, the boy who was first to die in this latest school shooting.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“How is she?”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I asked.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“She texted she was <span style="font-weight: bold;">not OK</span>, and she didn’t want to talk about it,”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>he said.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Give her some time,”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I told him.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">What reasons can I give to my children so that they can understand what just happened?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Are they safe?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>When I look at what has happened around us I think perhaps not.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We in our <span style="font-style: italic;">very normal</span> suburban homes have been so close to these horrible disasters.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I read the statistics and they say that violent crimes in schools in the USA are down, but here we are again, another person out of their mind with a gun.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="font-weight: bold;">Guns are still too easy to access in the US and mental health care too difficult to access.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Our nation… our global community needs to spend more time meditating on how everything and everyone is interconnected and less time simply watching and mindlessly reacting to the horror of the moment. Compassionate thought should guide our every action, become our daily practice, and this will create our better future.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Please make it your mission to counter every act of random violence with a thoughtful act of kindness!</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Peace in all your good endeavors.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">I send my love and prayers for healing to the Chardon community and the many grieving families affected by this tremendous tragedy.</i></p>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-46148593311454464502012-02-18T21:38:00.005-05:002012-03-02T14:56:32.864-05:00Talented Boys<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPrDyHKp3FAZd0ZR56QX_fVqy1IEzkusr0vSeIhKVo3iNtye6GHLBiMIH07gNAcCZE3KSQixi5x9XxoNT3MaIyx7jPN2huZ0WEdxxZlJfqi-tagLm0Ow9n0kJe2I2nVpSPUcZZlfH807k/s1600/Joshua+and+Sean.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 343px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPrDyHKp3FAZd0ZR56QX_fVqy1IEzkusr0vSeIhKVo3iNtye6GHLBiMIH07gNAcCZE3KSQixi5x9XxoNT3MaIyx7jPN2huZ0WEdxxZlJfqi-tagLm0Ow9n0kJe2I2nVpSPUcZZlfH807k/s400/Joshua+and+Sean.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5710674572393134738" border="0" /></a>I was looking back through my old posts tonight and I was wondering what happened to my time? I used to write...<br /><br />Moving back to the city was a blessing for my boys. We enjoyed the animals on the little farm in PA, but we missed the social aspects and opportunities of the city. There is never a dull day around here and I wish I had the time to tell you all about it. I am still traveling to shows on weekends. When I am home during the week I work with my customers in the morning while the kids are at school. As soon as school lets out I am so busy being the chauffeur and cook that there seems to be no time left in the day. Right now Joshua is in two plays and Sean is also in a play. Both boys play instruments and have lessons as well. Parents are expected to get the kids to practices, provide the costumes find the donations and provide the programs etc. Just like millions of other mothers I'm working two full time jobs. But, <span style="font-style: italic;">Oh the Joy!</span> There is nothing better than seeing my talented boys in action.<br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Click here: <span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 0);"> </span><a style="color: rgb(255, 255, 0);" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/aworldofgoodinc?feature=guide#p/a/u/0/sx17P5rlTvc">Josh singing and Wayne playing at a block party.</a></span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">*This is especially for my friends in Nepal who have never met my children.</span>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-49316098520007854392012-01-22T10:46:00.002-05:002012-01-22T22:55:18.208-05:00Missing Nepal<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWccRDM_gR8GAvfuSj-Z8TSRZlJt3GOdbkY3Bx3M0Rh2BjdXtT1CR67qmpX2ieAqSDauLGtiAr7Vb-5Zu8Vobgiqm9zJmwiWudUB6qtpeiD1QmIeel_Nsjemw9Ko9CVePHQC8gr68kD6o/s1600/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+290.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWccRDM_gR8GAvfuSj-Z8TSRZlJt3GOdbkY3Bx3M0Rh2BjdXtT1CR67qmpX2ieAqSDauLGtiAr7Vb-5Zu8Vobgiqm9zJmwiWudUB6qtpeiD1QmIeel_Nsjemw9Ko9CVePHQC8gr68kD6o/s400/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+290.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5700661655369095122" border="0" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1dNGamEH7DZylwfp5uFrE4b151HJzYTrlDyLj2w6sviQHujhYyh7a3RMSuIYjmnTPBdJPXcqz1oef5EMybUNBIfe-ofOFfZS3hjmbKGl6OXPe81gnTmQu3lRBVRR_yZ_LRUpZn4srjCY/s1600/IMG_3451.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1dNGamEH7DZylwfp5uFrE4b151HJzYTrlDyLj2w6sviQHujhYyh7a3RMSuIYjmnTPBdJPXcqz1oef5EMybUNBIfe-ofOFfZS3hjmbKGl6OXPe81gnTmQu3lRBVRR_yZ_LRUpZn4srjCY/s400/IMG_3451.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5700660507432069298" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhvckktAQOeMc9RPR4FUURTHKemNGJHWCDpzsQB5LaU3yeRv-7lSDIg4Sylgft2-WWLw4IkS9fpgL8GqTTcsOgQJvBhB3caPFvrbEQiDRtjwlNyL2OF_DcVqZq71_1d6MIouHeC7KhAOE/s1600/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+331.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhvckktAQOeMc9RPR4FUURTHKemNGJHWCDpzsQB5LaU3yeRv-7lSDIg4Sylgft2-WWLw4IkS9fpgL8GqTTcsOgQJvBhB3caPFvrbEQiDRtjwlNyL2OF_DcVqZq71_1d6MIouHeC7KhAOE/s400/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+331.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5700654354339700850" border="0" /></a></div><span style="font-size:180%;"><br /></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" >I'm really missing trekking in Nepal this year! </span><span style="font-size:180%;"><br /></span></div><span style="font-size:180%;"><br />I'm afraid I can't afford to go this year and that is really sad because the <a style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);" href="http://goddessoftheconfluence.blogspot.com/2011/09/library-is-finished.html">Shree Navavi Jayee Library</a> that so many of you helped create in the Rasuwa district will be dedicated in a formal ceremony on January 25th, 2012. I want to let all of my friends in Nepal know that I am with them in spirit. I am honored to have been able to be a part of such a worthy project. Certainly all of the people who will be able to use this new library must be very proud of the efforts of their community. The village was able to obtain books not only from <a style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);" href="http://www.roomtoread.org/">Room to Read</a> but also through assistance from the <a style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);" href="http://joy.org.np/">Joy Foundation</a> and donations from the <a style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);" href="http://www.blogger.com/www.indianembassy.org.np">Indian Embassy</a>. I will be praying that the library is well used and that I will be able to see if for myself some day.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"></span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" >May you all enjoy peace and prosperity!</span><span style="font-size:180%;"><br /><br />-Jennifer Gerard</span>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-54239193912604204912011-12-16T13:18:00.006-05:002011-12-17T16:54:26.040-05:00Still Believing in Santa<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5s4NH2M72wp9_pCwLU3hP3D9vFmBRKc548SmuqakjuBy9344T8cPRewvKB0-WJHfbGBRm_9lW30gOkgJumFmkiu6rB9Jzhr5Ky6_s5KfNp_XEksKHZHTpW2uA6xcwac24oH2On1UOWgs/s1600/Santa+Falls+Down.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5s4NH2M72wp9_pCwLU3hP3D9vFmBRKc548SmuqakjuBy9344T8cPRewvKB0-WJHfbGBRm_9lW30gOkgJumFmkiu6rB9Jzhr5Ky6_s5KfNp_XEksKHZHTpW2uA6xcwac24oH2On1UOWgs/s400/Santa+Falls+Down.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687212337104224834" border="0" /></a><br />"OK, I want the truth." Our 9 year old eyed my husband and me with a most serious expression. We were trapped at the dinner table with our accuser and his 14 year old brother as a witness. I looked to my husband's guilt ridden face. He wasn't about to say a word. The 14 year old was grinning his 'I told you so' grin. So, I was tossed to the wolf cub.<br /><br />"Well it's true," I said. "Your father and I put the presents under the tree.... but we are doing it in the spirit of Santa Claus."<br /><br />"?" The 9 year old stared at me.<br /><br />"You should have seen us trying to stuff the piano down the chimney last year," I continued.<br /><br />"Nooo!" he wailed as he writhed in his chair with a mixture of frustration and delight with our playfulness. His brother and father stifled laughs. "How did you get the piano into the house and hidden behind the tree last year?!"<br /><br />*Silence*<br /><br />"Well," said his father, "a magician never gives away his tricks," he grinned.<br /><br />"Did you and dad carry it into the house?" the boy asked.<br /><br />"Hah!" I laughed. "Your father and I couldn't carry a piano into the house on Christmas Eve."<br /><br />"So what did you do?" The nine year old insisted.<br /><br />"We hired some elves!" I smiled.<br /><br />"Arrrrrgh!" he yelled and laughed at the same time.<br /><br />After the laughter died down, we told our little boy that we are all part of the spirit of Christmas and now that he knows where the presents come from, he would also be responsible for helping bring the spirit of Christmas to others.<br /><br />Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone!Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-84955473843518873372011-11-21T11:30:00.001-05:002011-11-21T11:30:00.821-05:00Who's Responsible for the Poor?<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Andy-Cook-Art/261346023630"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhE9I9eo1oEoQCPCeEixId0INeIqL6PU_GzAnuZf7bXFFipEb653ZufInrEmkCeJDd1W60J_cdk77UAATFiXxqT__K9hS1GZJQb0ikHMRvtlegWANgCDTAbdnFbTQ0HR1B9eyzJdcDUO7Q/s400/Image+old+man.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5677288059164058882" border="0" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Andy Cook 2002<br />Thank you for the public image Andy<br /><br /></div>I had one of those heart stopping double takes when I was driving up an on-ramp in Memphis, Tennessee last weekend. I saw and elderly man who looked as if he was barely able to stand at the side of the road. A metal cane was clutched in his right hand and a suitcase was on the ground to his left. His brow was furrowed with deep groves in the shape of a lifetime of worry. His eyes looked directly into mine as if to say, 'How could you possibly drive by without stopping?'<br /><br />I have seen some scruffy old hitch-hikers before, but this scene was all wrong. He was much too old and frail to be standing alone. His thumb was not out, no sign, and I had the feeling that he didn't know why he was standing there. I couldn't help wondering if someone had just dropped him off there only moments before. I was about to be late to my bead show and if I am late the promoters will fine me at least $100. There really wasn't much choice though, I had to pull over. Just as I put on my turn signal I saw a police car pull up to him in my rear view mirror. Thank God!<br /><br />I really don't know whether it was bad luck or bad life choices that brought him to that place at that point in his life. Recently, I have heard several people argue that if we don't allow people to suffer the consequences of their bad life choices then society will have to suffer the eternal burden of their welfare. I just can't imagine myself driving by that old man and thinking to myself, 'tough luck, you must have screwed up.' For me, each of those welfare recipients has a face and a story and unless I know the story how could I say you are not worthy of help?<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;" class="body">All major religious traditions carry basically the same message, that is love, compassion and forgiveness. The important thing is they should be part of our daily lives.</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">-Dalai Lama</span><span class="bodybold"><a href="http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/d/dalailama402129.html"></a></span><br /><br />May you all have a bountiful Thanksgiving!Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-35768668924919030962011-10-22T19:08:00.006-04:002011-10-24T17:07:07.152-04:00Knowing What You Want<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF5QLX8xZwWfEMPi6sTWi8qia0IdYa2O1AWsTsecFlYas6PJvpmA0dCueiCajl_iL81MYcjpu9Oab-693ybAIzL-QGwvJdUqAGY9iG0AadlpykkCJNHRKhZeJRdp2BUq9JLj_LDGRJmrQ/s1600/Japanese+Bird+Print.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 326px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF5QLX8xZwWfEMPi6sTWi8qia0IdYa2O1AWsTsecFlYas6PJvpmA0dCueiCajl_iL81MYcjpu9Oab-693ybAIzL-QGwvJdUqAGY9iG0AadlpykkCJNHRKhZeJRdp2BUq9JLj_LDGRJmrQ/s400/Japanese+Bird+Print.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666457500855406546" border="0" /></a><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="body"><span style="font-style: italic;">I found this print in a used book store in Kobe, Japan. It's one of my favorites so I thought that I would share it with you.</span><br /></span></p>Remember your joys! Your life's purpose is in what you love.<br /><br /><span class="body">At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want. -Lao Tzu (venerable teacher)</span>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-34212329317852201772011-10-12T11:04:00.005-04:002011-10-12T12:34:50.654-04:00Internet Scams and Running an On Line Business<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinakNBrF6qH8SQVISWAsdt1vbeo24K7bsiPoKX2R_hbu-u11Pl8r7DL2-oGXNAHh0fF-hkRcKU78tap4ErFnI_m4E73ddqLLa0A7vRifSAE-Aq08rfg0GzOAgBfGbufMHVsfHdsts1GFM/s1600/Digital+Image.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 372px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinakNBrF6qH8SQVISWAsdt1vbeo24K7bsiPoKX2R_hbu-u11Pl8r7DL2-oGXNAHh0fF-hkRcKU78tap4ErFnI_m4E73ddqLLa0A7vRifSAE-Aq08rfg0GzOAgBfGbufMHVsfHdsts1GFM/s400/Digital+Image.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5662642543101818386" border="0" /></a><br />Looks like Bad Breath in the Cyber World Doesn't it?<br /><br /></div>Sometimes I think I get more deceitful email than anyone else on earth. I would guess that I get at least 4 of these a day:<br /><pre wrap="">Dear Partner, I am Mrs Elena, financial controller to Mikhail Khodorkovsky the richest man in Russia and owner of the following companies:Chairman CEO:YUKOS OIL (Russian Most Largest Oil Company)Chairman CEO:Menatep SBP Bank (A well reputable financial institution with its branches all over the world) Please get back to me to give you details of the transaction.if you are interested please provide below information : Your full names : Address : Your country : Age : Phone and fax number : Occupation : Do you own a company: </pre>Part of the problem is that I can't block every unknown email because they may be potential customers for my business and some are my suppliers. For the most part they are easy to identify and trash.<br /><br />These are some of the more common scams I've seen:<br />1. Are you deceased?<br />2. Lottery<br />3. Death of an unknown relative<br />4. Wanting to leave everything to me for my charity<br />5. IRS refund<br />6. Credit Card notice of fraud activity<br />7. Banking error<br />8. eBay concern<br />9. Pay Pal concern<br />10. Mysterious Fed Ex Package in my name (by the way what's my name?)<br />11. Powerful Rich man dies and I have his money, help me move it.<br /><br />Here are some key words that get my Spider Senses tingling:<br />1. Nigeria, Russia<br />2. Let me introduce myself<br />3. This may come as a surprise to you<br />4. Urgent<br />5. Threatening legal action<br />6. Looking for a partner in your country<br />7. You have won!<br /><br />(I'm sure your can come up with many more.)<br /><br />The primary methods in these types of scams are <span style="font-weight: bold;">greed</span> and <span style="font-weight: bold;">fear</span>. If you always remember that <span style="font-weight: bold;">you don't get something for nothing</span> you are half way there. For almost everything else I simply ignore the email and contact the company directly. <span style="font-style: italic;">I did once have an issue with Pay Pal but it said so on my account when I looked it up.</span> If in doubt I recommend contacting the authorities.<br /><br />What brings this to mind today is a more tricky and insidious scam. I'm not even sure how it was done. I have been placing orders with the same man in Nepal for 12 years when suddenly he asked for help. This is completely out of character for him. I have helped people in the past by buying in larger quantities or fronting them money so that they can purchase materials. I have even given outright gifts. This time my friend was asking me to send money to him in China by means of Western Union to a name I have never heard before. <span style="font-weight: bold;">(If you send cash, you can't get it back.</span> <span style="font-weight: bold;">Don't do it!</span>) Oddly enough, he was responding to my requests for inventory and delivery dates and everything else seemed normal. What I didn't notice at first was that his return email address was incorrect by an extra 's.' Very tricky indeed. I did not send money, instead I sent a message to him through a mutual friend to find out if he knew that his email account had been hijacked.<br /><br />Be careful out there!Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-16679514071960409152011-09-19T13:58:00.008-04:002011-09-19T22:02:25.497-04:00The Library is Finished!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6QUWPRNkv3rzbKJWO8rJZ8fMoUKR6Rtv-8GLOavLAx5trqBmvNnmmBl59_b7Hd1Ax5ti_cNHK48yxWz89AyJzS2JlJmw6oFnV_lX9pSl3Z2XfqccegW5PxXcTEDraEoAlP5iIJpuweAw/s1600/DSCI0374.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6QUWPRNkv3rzbKJWO8rJZ8fMoUKR6Rtv-8GLOavLAx5trqBmvNnmmBl59_b7Hd1Ax5ti_cNHK48yxWz89AyJzS2JlJmw6oFnV_lX9pSl3Z2XfqccegW5PxXcTEDraEoAlP5iIJpuweAw/s400/DSCI0374.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5654146379687577202" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg0FcGE5QHaQNwwNUoomxNmO7USmdjXEbv2uriy1P_cqqrfP8qdE0AIqVeoxIGCqFHCX7LvPfObAVsQ708wiGD1B6PonzIejpdN8N0Fw3cr283yb6m_13ZzWAC73QKRBFjJi5J3iL8C-T4/s1600/DSCI0372.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg0FcGE5QHaQNwwNUoomxNmO7USmdjXEbv2uriy1P_cqqrfP8qdE0AIqVeoxIGCqFHCX7LvPfObAVsQ708wiGD1B6PonzIejpdN8N0Fw3cr283yb6m_13ZzWAC73QKRBFjJi5J3iL8C-T4/s400/DSCI0372.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5654145920218514242" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxb7sZnEiQeBVAN08tTi9OuSuvEm4-N6ZEDUnOh76-advR91U53BtM9V6xRCgIW_xBDuIuC83c4-jSy_iAPwjJHJgr5roLWKNzxQQ-HTqAe2dNgvTJd7U9ciQdsOSjwvDU52luDIzk_Xo/s1600/DSCI0373.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxb7sZnEiQeBVAN08tTi9OuSuvEm4-N6ZEDUnOh76-advR91U53BtM9V6xRCgIW_xBDuIuC83c4-jSy_iAPwjJHJgr5roLWKNzxQQ-HTqAe2dNgvTJd7U9ciQdsOSjwvDU52luDIzk_Xo/s400/DSCI0373.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5654145552803206210" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Yes, it is actually the year 2068 in Nepal. The official calendar of Nepal is the Vikram Samvat. It is 56.7 years ahead of the Gregorian Calendar.<br /><br /></span></div>Thank you again for all of your help. This project was made possible by the many donations from family, friends, blog friends and customers. The community is grateful to everyone who made contributions and regrets that the artist could not put all of their names on the sign.<br /><br />Please also note that <a href="http://www.roomtoread.org/">Room to Read</a> will be sending a package of as many as 250 books and the <a href="http://joy.org.np/">Joy Foundation</a> has offered to contribute books through other sources. And, I was able to send an additional $250 for books and science equipment.<br /><br />The community plans to hire a librarian and after the books have arrived and the librarian is ready they will have an opening ceremony. I really wish I could go, but I don't think there is enough spare cash for that right now.<br /><br />Thanks again everyone!<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The community is actively looking for English speakers that might want to spend time (even a few weeks or months) in the village teaching. If you know of anyone who is interested in this type of adventure, contact me, Jennifer Gerard at <a href="http://www.blogger.com/awog@erols.com">awog@erols.com</a>. It is not a paid position.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >I just heard that there was an earthquake in northern India that affected Sikkim and Nepal. Nepal is in no way prepared for a serious earthquake. Most of the homes would just rattle apart. So far they have reported 50 dead but there are many remote villages that can not be reached because of landslides. An early estimate is that 100,000 homes have been damaged. These pictures of the library must have been sent to me just hours before the earthquake<span style="font-style: italic;">. </span>I'll let you know if I hear from anyone about the impact on the village where the library is.</span><span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-72787154057106108972011-09-10T20:00:00.001-04:002011-09-11T09:32:37.352-04:00The Marble Machine, my 911 account for my boys<div>Our neighbor, Sara, called and said, "Turn on the TV! Something just happened in New York." When I turned it on the first plane had already crashed. Watching, I was in a kind of horrified stupor trying to sort out what had just happened. I kept thinking about the tourists that must have been in the building because I can remember riding the elevator up near the top of one of the towers to see the view with my family when I was a kid.<br /><br />Wayne, my husband, came into the room and Josh, my son, was there. The news reporters were talking rapidly. Suddenly, out of nowhere, the second plane hit! It was absolutely unreal. Josh said, "Wow!" not understanding what he had seen because he was only 3. Later he asked his dad if anyone might have been hurt in the plane. Wayne answered vaguely, "That was possible."<br /><br />For most of my lifetime we in the USA had lived in a time of peace so, I was having trouble interpreting what was happening. Clearly we were under attack, but by whom? Why? The attack was not in the middle of a war or a conflict or even a remarkable spat. It was more like a sucker punch out of nowhere.<br /><br />Wayne and I were about to whisk Josh out the door to take him to daycare. So, we jumped in the car. When we arrived, no one at the daycare had heard the news yet. I didn't want to voice out loud the horrible thing that had just happened. I just said, "You need to turn on the news, right now."<br /><br />Wayne and I hurried home again to watch more news. The Pentagon had been hit while we were out. That brought the tragedy very close to our home because we lived within the beltway. We didn't know until later, but some of the kids at our local school lost a parent that day. Then flight 93 went down in PA. Then the towers actually collapsed! I really hadn't expect them to fall. I don't think that many people expected that. All that day I was kind of numbly glued to the TV. After picking Josh up from daycare at lunch time, I dutifully cared for him, distracting him with toys then returned to the TV for more news.<br /><br />That night was eerily quiet. We stayed home and no one on our street went anywhere. The only sound we heard was a regular circling of military Jets around the perimeter of the capitol because all of the other flights in the country had been cancelled. Everyone was afraid because we didn't know much about who attacked us or if they had plans for more attacks. Each time the jets passed over head, I felt a little bit of comfort.<br /><br />The next day, I was still in shock and constantly watching for every bit of news. Most of America was watching, but there was this terrible feeling of uselessness. Most people couldn't really help, although we all wanted to do something. A lot of people prayed and lit candles.<br /><br />By evening, I was beginning to realize that my obsession with the news was becoming unhealthy for me and for Josh. I wasn't playing with him anymore. I turned off the TV and started to create something. I had wood and glue and bells. Over the next couple of days the creation took form and Wayne helped me. Two tall towers of wood connected by ramps emerged. The 'escape' ramps carried marbles to the bells that tolled for those who had passed. An American flag was at the top and a cup was at the bottom to catch the fallen. And there were three churning 'wheels of life' spinning in primary colors as each marble passed through. The ramps were made so that the marbles would precariously make a drop from one ramp to the next. Sometimes they wouldn't make it and they would fall off the end of the ramp and crash on the floor.<br /><br />When it was finished Josh often played with that marble machine and so did his brother, Sean, a few years later, but until now I never told them why I made it. It was my memorial.<br /><br />I wish that I could give my boys that time before we talked about terrorists every day. It is sad for me to know that they cannot remember a time when our country was at peace.<br /><br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">For Whom the Bell Tolls</span><br /><br />No man is an island,<br />Entire of itself.<br />Each is a piece of the continent,<br />A part of the main.<br />If a clod be washed away by the sea,<br />Europe is the less.<br />As well as if a promontory were.<br />As well as if a manner of thine own<br />Or of thine friend's were.<br />Each man's death diminishes me,<br />For I am involved in mankind.<br />Therefore, send not to know<br />For whom the bell tolls,<br />It tolls for thee.<br /><br />-John Donne </div>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-42570820258815215422011-09-01T11:54:00.002-04:002011-09-01T11:57:14.188-04:00Postcard to Mom and Dad 1992<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZE2VF65VZ1c-OL0T03WBh3bGkXlK9S5w5sDjunwBngIVILXeNJm2dV8nYqAIpVt9NmQiaVLQSbQr3QciRBVGyF0C7iJ3eyx-iurPUzAEolFeWeDplB9gY4e7Ymtegxoi1nci52UB6VE4/s1600/Postcard+from+Nepal.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 280px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZE2VF65VZ1c-OL0T03WBh3bGkXlK9S5w5sDjunwBngIVILXeNJm2dV8nYqAIpVt9NmQiaVLQSbQr3QciRBVGyF0C7iJ3eyx-iurPUzAEolFeWeDplB9gY4e7Ymtegxoi1nci52UB6VE4/s400/Postcard+from+Nepal.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5647420628019376354" border="0" /></a>
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<br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Photo taken by self timer in Kathmandu, Nepal</span>
<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">the first visit 1992</span>
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<br />Do you recognize your daughter? It's November 16th, in Bangkok. Cheryl's out roaming the street trying to find some way to surprise me for my 28th birthday. I'll be calling you tonight, but thought you'd appreciate the photo. Don't worry, the clothes are merely an expression of my dramatic self not a new religious persona. Did I tell you we flew into Nepal, flying straight past Everest and had a magnificent view. We hiked in the Himilayas for 6 days sometimes 8 to 10 hours a day, 20 lbs on our backs. We're in Thailand now and are skipping India in favor of the Philippines (less hassles). I've written to Chito and will call Jerry B., my doctor friend from Japan, so that we should have guides for the tail end of our trip. Bangkok is hot and humid and as polluted as ever but we will be heading for the least rainy beaches as soon as possible. Thinking about starting an import business but will wait to see how practical it is. (Mail sent via post-restante.) I'll be home soon.
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<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Just found this post card and thought I would share.</span>
<br />Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-67674398117354077022011-07-14T21:27:00.005-04:002011-08-18T11:33:01.721-04:00Help from Room to Read!Great News Today!
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<br />Room to Read has agreed to help our library by taking donations for our Library Project at the <i><span style=" ;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:x-small;" ><span style="font-size:12pt;">Shree Nava Vijayee Mahendra Secondary School, Rasuwa, Nepal</span></span></i>.
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<br /><span style=" ;font-size:x-large;color:black;" >Thank you Room to Read!</span>
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<br />This means that contributions for books made in the US can be tax deductible.
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<br />Here is what you can do.
<br /><ul face="Tahoma" size="10pt" style=" "><li>Funds should be mailed to their headquarters office in San Francisco to the address below. Checks should be made out to Room to Read and should also have "Atlanta chapter and Nepal-LLP" written on the note line. </li></ul><div style="margin-left: 40px;">Room to Read
<br />Attn: Rachael Johnson
<br />111 Sutter St., 16th Floor
<br />San Francisco, CA 94104</div><ul face="Tahoma" size="10pt" style=" "><li>If people want to donate online, they can do so at the following link:
<br /><ul><li><a href="https://www.roomtoread.org/SSLPage.aspx?pid=184" target="_blank">https://www.roomtoread.org/<wbr>SSLPage.aspx?pid=184</a></li></ul></li></ul><div style="margin-left: 40px;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">**NOTE:</span> To ensure that our specific project receives the appropriate funds, online donors should select "Nepal - Local Language Publishing" in the "Designation" drop down box and also to be sure to select "Atlanta" in the "I heard about Room to Read through a chapter" drop down box.</div><ul style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;"><li>They are able to keep their costs extremely low: approximately US $1 per book. Once all the funds have been received, they will work directly with their local team in Nepal to have a box shipped from their supplies. (Our goal is 250 books from Room to Read.) Any donations in excess of our goal will go to help other worthy library projects in Nepal.
<br /></li></ul><table class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;" align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhT56ilZsaSs1SRZSTCUD_6m30ycgs83rLkUVQ_zPzcfeoid6yOwWeEITpV4kaebBVwFq2Ie2akDneuQMWQBafuGe870owoR-Wn2zdxCrJ0o09x5vw52PfDFP3bNLVbiQiU1n-JBUzihzo/s1600/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+212.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhT56ilZsaSs1SRZSTCUD_6m30ycgs83rLkUVQ_zPzcfeoid6yOwWeEITpV4kaebBVwFq2Ie2akDneuQMWQBafuGe870owoR-Wn2zdxCrJ0o09x5vw52PfDFP3bNLVbiQiU1n-JBUzihzo/s400/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+212.JPG" width="400" height="300" border="0" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:small;">Patience and fortitude conquer all things. -Ralph Waldo Emerson</span></td></tr></tbody></table><ul style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;"><li>Also, here's a link to more info about their Local Language Publishing program:<span style="font-family:Arial;"><a href="http://www.roomtoread.org/Page.aspx?pid=282" target="_blank">http://www.roomtoread.org/<wbr>Page.aspx?pid=282</a> <i> </i></span></li></ul>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-30731720544817456842011-06-27T12:10:00.001-04:002011-06-27T12:12:08.244-04:00The Library Under Construction, Rasuwa District, Nepal<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Sorry, I can't really tell you what's going on or in what order this is happening. But I can see...<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;">I had better get busy and collect more money for the books. </span></td></tr>
</tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhA4hak1Pdhym5ysYTvG-6nOCwrAbrLqOgVimIe0yowRL4ESSc7POeCdEHPLAXeQiXF9WWSblMfjtC7Cr2mcx6n9YMEKApFCuLZ2K4guktQREfwQTw4YMNatqzvJ9QWH0pSyNShO9dSzJw/s1600/Library+Construction+2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhA4hak1Pdhym5ysYTvG-6nOCwrAbrLqOgVimIe0yowRL4ESSc7POeCdEHPLAXeQiXF9WWSblMfjtC7Cr2mcx6n9YMEKApFCuLZ2K4guktQREfwQTw4YMNatqzvJ9QWH0pSyNShO9dSzJw/s400/Library+Construction+2.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>I wish that I could be there!<br />
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Thanks again for all of the contributions and support. It's kind of amazing what we can accomplish together.Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-50641521855169787802011-06-08T12:30:00.000-04:002011-06-08T12:30:50.523-04:00Update on the Library Project<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEA46O5gSJAaZaSetnaYzOVonqJqFwDW8eC4fXc3rXXEq9cfC1dZxkeOlodkhJsGSVLuKcDCexMhgx3kI619MupyYthgXbqSEwHJ36ZMCjsj4aH01UmXd2khJSsJVmbUgkKA5iX_9ANBs/s1600/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+209.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEA46O5gSJAaZaSetnaYzOVonqJqFwDW8eC4fXc3rXXEq9cfC1dZxkeOlodkhJsGSVLuKcDCexMhgx3kI619MupyYthgXbqSEwHJ36ZMCjsj4aH01UmXd2khJSsJVmbUgkKA5iX_9ANBs/s400/Nepal+Pictures+March+2010+209.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>I was so surprised a few weeks ago to receive a phone call from Nepal. The English teacher at <span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Shree Nava Vijayee Mahendra Secondary School</span></span> called to personally thank me. The Joy Foundation had informed them that enough funds were sent to cover the cost of building the library. The school administrators would be arranging a trip to Kathmandu to discuss the details.<br />
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Yesterday, I received this note from the Joy Foundation:<br />
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<div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">7th June, 2011</span></span></i></div><i> </i><i></i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">To,</span></span></b></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">Ms. Jennifer Gerard</span></span></b></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">President,</span></span></b></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">A World of Good, Inc.</span></span></b></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">OH</span></span></b><b><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 44120, USA</span></b><b><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></b></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">Subject: School Library Project. </span></span></b></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Dear Madam,</span></span></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">We are pleased to inform you that, today we have signed an agreement with Shree Nava Vijayee Mahendra Secondary School, Laharepauwa – 6, Rasuwa to make a library room in the school. The school has submitted a detailed cost report of Rs. 1,50,500.00 to complete the library room including cost of furniture for library room. However, we have given them 70 % of the above cost as 1st installment of Rs. 1,05,000.00 to start the construction work and remaining 30 % will be paid to them once they spent and submit all the documents to JOY. Also be informed that one of the JOY staff will visit the school in few days time to inspect the work progress in school, so that school may feel responsible and complete the work on time. I hope this information will be fruitful for you.</span></span></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">With best regards,<b><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></b></span></span></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">Pradip Man Shrestha</span></span></b></i></div><i> </i><div class="MsoNormal"><i><b><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-weight: bold;">Admin. & Finance Executive</span></span></b></i></div><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I just want to thank you all again for supporting the project and cheering me on. As soon as I have pictures I will certainly share them with you.</span><br />
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Any further contributions made by friends and family to this project will go toward the purchase of books. Contributions can be made to:<br />
<a href="http://joy.org.np/">The Joy Foundation</a><br />
<a href="http://www.plymouthchurchucc.org/">Plymouth UCC</a> (for church members, please note for use on the library project, Nepal)<br />
We are still hoping that <a href="http://www.roomtoread.org/">Room to Read</a> will be able to provide the books. But I don't know much about the details yet. <br />
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Peace!Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-89375718488279238722011-05-27T15:05:00.000-04:002011-05-27T15:05:53.563-04:00The Jewel in the Journey<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Is it a flower or a weed?</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">A wandering soul is either profoundly blessed or profoundly cursed. Most often, people tell me that it must be nice to live a life of constant travel. It is....It isn't. Sometimes I just want to be home. And yet, I miss the road when I sit still too long. The jewel that I seek is not in a specific place, it is in the journey itself. It is every story that I encounter.</div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br />
</div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Below is my summer schedule. In between the shows I will drive home to Shaker Heights, OH and I will be able to take my family with me on some of these adventures.<span style="font-family: arial;"></span></div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br />
</div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: arial;">June 4,5 - Raleigh, NC<br />
</span><a href="http://beadshows.com/"><i><span style="color: red;"><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Intergalactic Bead Show</span></b></span></i></a></div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br />
</div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: arial;">June 11,12 - Brookline, MA<br />
</span><a href="http://www.thepeartreeofbrookline.com/" style="color: cyan;"><i><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Trunk Show the Pear Tree</span></b></i></a></div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br />
</div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: arial;">June 18,19 - Cleveland, OH<br />
</span><a href="http://beadshows.com/" style="color: red;"><i><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Intergalactic Bead Show</span></b></i></a></div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br />
</div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> <span style="color: purple; font-family: arial;"><i><b><span style="color: #3366ff;">July 2,3 - Takoma Park, MD<br />
Happy 4th of July!</span></b></i></span></div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br />
<span style="font-family: arial;">July 9,10 - Chicago, IL</span><br />
<a href="http://beadshows.com/"><i><span style="color: red;"><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Intergalactic Bead Show</span></b></span></i></a></div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br />
</div><div align="left" style="font-family: arial; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">July 22, 23, 24 - Virginia Beach, VA<br />
<a href="http://treasuresoftheearth.net/"><span style="color: purple; font-family: arial;"><i><b>Treasures of the Earth Gem & Jewelry Show</b></i></span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: arial;">August 6,7 - Cincinnati, OH </span><span style="font-family: arial;"></span><br />
<a href="http://beadshows.com/"><i><span style="color: red;"><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Intergalactic Bead Show</span></b></span></i></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: arial;">August 13,14 - Ashville, NC </span><span style="font-family: arial;"></span><br />
<a href="http://beadshows.com/"><i><span style="color: red;"><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Intergalactic Bead Show</span></b></span></i></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: arial;">August 20, 21 - Atlanta, GA </span><span style="font-family: arial;"></span><br />
<a href="http://beadshows.com/"><i><span style="color: red;"><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Intergalactic Bead Show</span></b></span></i></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: arial;">August 26, 27, 28 - Columbus Ohio</span><br />
<a href="http://www.gemstreetusa.com/"><span style="color: #33cc00; font-family: arial;"><i><b>GemStreet USA</b></i></span></a><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span><br />
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*Our latest shipment has arrived. Look for the new items at <a href="http://aworldofgood.blogspot.com/">aworldofgood.blogspot.com</a> and <a href="http://aworldofgood.com/">aworldofgood.com</a></span>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5809185710327113434.post-67838428717617314702011-05-02T14:55:00.000-04:002011-05-02T14:55:32.852-04:00The Death of Silver!<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">From the left: Newar earrings, Angel Bell Pendant,Chakra earring, Chakra pendant, Chubshi (Sterling silver prayer counters), Tibetan sterling silver earring, Tibetan sterling silver ring, Tibetan sterling silver Dragon Earrings</td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br />
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</tbody></table>2001 was a terrible year for so many reasons. 10 members of Nepal's royal family were murdered by the prince who then killed himself. Not good for my business because I buy most of my product in Nepal, and really not good for Nepal. But even worse that year was what Osama Bin Laden did on September 11, 2001. This horror was sudden, but the damage is still resounding slowly and painfully. What he did set financial markets around the world reeling and baited the US into two wars.<br />
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I started my business in 1993. Back then, silver was roughly $4-$6 a troy oz. I could buy silver rings for $3 or $4 dollars and sell them to stores in the US who would retail them for $10 or $12. The price of silver stayed basically the same for the first 8 years of my business. There was a sudden jump in the price of silver in 2001, and by the end of 2002 it had risen about 25%. Our $10 ring was now $12.50. When the Iraq war began in 2003 silver started to rise again and by February 2004 this same ring was now $20. Though the price fluctuated some, the trend was still going up. Speculators making money off of the fear of others pushed prices even higher. Many in the silver industry also believe that China has been buying up all kinds of raw materials including silver because, China is growing and silver has industrial uses. China is also worried about owning so much of our debt, and they know we are still at war and in financial distress.<br />
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Silver prices fell some in 2008 when the whole financial market crashed, but silver and gold are traditional safe havens in a down market and they soon picked up again. This time the rise has been with reckless abandon. Prices doubled! Then since Autumn 2010 to April 30th, 2011, prices doubled again. Many of my colleagues and I have switched to making more brass and copper products. Last Friday silver was at $48 a troy oz. Our little $10 ring was now a whopping $120!<br />
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In my latest shipment, I ordered little bell pendants like the one that you see above dotting the 'i' in silver. The bells have always been good sellers especially the little cat bell with a mouse as the clapper. They sold very well at $18, they sold well at $32, but will they sell at their current price, $70?<br />
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According to <a href="http://www.bloomberg.com/">Bloomberg</a> today, silver futures sank nearly 12% on the announcement of Bin Laden's death. Does this mean the death of the over inflated silver market? I do predict that the silver bubble is about to deflate somewhat, but we are still at war and have jobs to create, so I would expect that your jewelry collection will hold a great deal of value for many years to come. The days of the $10 sterling silver ring are far behind us.<br />
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*Some of my customers ask why other sellers have very cheap <b>Tibetan Silver</b>. The quick and simple answer is... it is not silver! Beware of anything labeled '<b>Tibetan Silver</b>.' Like '<b>German Silver</b>,' it has become synonymous with 0% silver content. It is usually a mixture of copper, zinc, nickel and tin. On our site <a href="http://aworldofgood.com/">http://aworldofgood.com</a> you can find 'White Metal' or 'Nickel' jewelry and they are priced accordingly. <i>Tibetans can and do make beautiful jewelry out of sterling silver as well, so I find the recent moniker to be especially tragic for excellent Tibetan craftspeople. *Note that much of the misrepresented silver is being distributed from China or India. Truth breeds better Karma.</i>Butternut Squashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.com8